Definition of a bitch :
A woman is called bitch because she is strong, intelligent and doesn’t take shit from anyone. She’s called a bitch because she’s ambitious, outspoken and doesn’t let anything stop her from accomplishing her dreams. She’s a bitch, as defined by society, because she challenges what’s natural…. does what makes her feel happy, and doesn’t accept society’s norms and rules - especially when said norms and rules are designed to keep her down.
Shes strong, and speaks out when a situation makes her uncomfortable. But she doesn’t do it as a way to complain, but rather, to say, “Continue what you’re doing and I’ll kick your fucking ass!” She fights for her fellow women, but not because they’re women. She fights for them because she sees them as human beings, just as she sees herself. She doesn’t need a man or woman in her life, as she is a complete person. While a partner - of either sex, would enhance her life, it doesn’t define her life. Her happiness comes from her accomplishments and what she can do for the world and herself, not by virtue of her “womanhood.”
She’s happy with who she is, and doesn’t have to dress up or put on make-up to make anyone happy; if she so chooses to do that, it’s to make herself happy. She owns her body, and is willing to use it for her own pleasure and the pleasure of those she deems deserving, but dare pressure her into anything and she’ll kick your ass. She is a woman, but she’s a human being first. She is defined by the fact that she walks and breaths, and not because she has a vagina.
Society is afraid of bitches because they’re not natural. They challenge the patriarchy, they make people uncomfortable in their own shoes. So, instead of worshiping bitches, they write them off, and they look at bitches as undesirable and lesbians and whatever you can think of.
This is really random but it's just the first thing that came in my mind.
"She is a woman, but she’s a human being first." Then why use a term denoting a DOG to describe her?
ReplyDeleteI actually LIKE this post because it's written powerfully. (Although I find that in writing, using LESS profanity tends to make more of an impression.) And there's a tradition of oppressed groups "taking back" the words that have been used against them and turning them into a symbol of pride. But I'll admit that I'm uncomfortable with "bitch" as a positive term.
But you've certainly got me thinking about it. And in any case, I think it's great to write a case for changing the meaning of a word. It's our language, after all...we are all in charge of how it's used.
Yeah wrd tiffany.
ReplyDeleteYou're hella profane.
WOAH, ianhasablog ?! Cause i thought it was wayne
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